It is easy to assume that teaching a preschooler is easier than teaching say, a third grader. Yeah, preschool stuff is just basic stuff! I shrug it off and just smile. Of course, as adults, we know basic concepts of the alphabet and numbers, colors and shapes by heart and teaching these is easy peasy!
This is where I got it wrong. Now that I am a few days shy of formally homeschooling our youngest Sweetpea, fear is starting to creep in. Teaching younger kids takes a lot of careful planning and the way I teach can negatively affect the way my child learns in the long term if I’m not careful. I now understand the reason why preschool tuition fees are steep!
I did a lot of research on the best teaching methods both from regular and in a homeschool setting. Since I don’t have a background in childhood education, I know there are many things I need to learn. Having spent all of my school years in traditional big schools, I also have lots of unlearning to do too! (And that is the harder part which makes for a separate post.:D)
Building a strong foundation
This stresses me out. We hear about the formative years being crucial in the developmental growth of kids. I agree with this. This stage is when their brains significantly grow as they make sense of the world.
This also means that I must apply more effective ways to teach basic concepts to strengthen this foundation.A good starting point is to expose young kids to books. We know that reading to kids is beneficial to their well-being.
Stories gives them things to imagine. With our girls, we set zero rules on the books they like to read for as long as they are age-appropriate. We also encourage them to read books that teach character and life lessons. I know, its a lot of work and I am turning into a worry-freak just writing about it!
As Charlotte Mason puts it: “Thought breeds thought; children familiar with great thoughts take as naturally to thinking for themselves as the well-nourished body takes to growing; and we must bear in mind that growth, physical, intellectual, moral, spiritual, is the sole end of education.”
Now, where did my faith in God’s promises to our homeschooling journey go?
“and how from childhood you have been acquainted with the sacred writings, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness.” Timothy 3:15-16
As my child’s primary educator, this job calls for wisdom. And with it, comes patience. And above all these things that I need is God’s grace. It is perfectly alright to feel inadequate because the truth is we really can’t do it just by relying on our own abilities. God also doesn’t expect us to know it all.:)
God promised that He will equip us, parents, with the just the right wisdom that we need to raise and train our child. We just need to seek His help and turn to His word. He didn’t promise homeschooling would be easy. We cannot be good teachers or parents if we don’t allow God to work through us. And that’s the beauty of it.
To our kids, we remain to be the world’s greatest mom!
Teddy Roosevelt once said:
“Children do not care how much you know until they know how much you care.”
Seeking wisdom and help
We, moms, sometimes struggle with asking for help. I myself am fighting this urge to keep my game face on even during hard days. This is something I need to remove from my system if I want to maximize my time and energy on homeschooling days. Hire a househelp or yaya if you think it will free up some of your time.
Online education sources and books are my go-to help. This is indispensable in my role as a teacher mom and we’re lucky to live in this information age when everything we need to know is just a click away.
Fear of Teaching Math
Please let me know I am not alone in this. You see, I have always been scared to teach math, even to our eldest Bigsis. I never liked Math. So, how can I teach Math when I myself avoided numbers growing up?!? I researched a bit and learned about this online resource called Math for Love. The creator of this program made it his life goal to help kids fall in love with math. Now, I want that for my kids! He came up with mathematical games that makes it fun for kids to solve number problems. There are tons of helpful materials out there, there is hope! 😀
Fear of Teaching Reading
I’ve always felt so inadequate about this. How in the world can I teach a child to read? I actually didn’t do much aside from teaching the alphabet and the letter sounds. Next thing I know, Sweetpea is already reading her CVCs! Praise God! Whatever learning pace our children have, I believe, is all by His grace! Never underestimate our little ones too. They are way smarter than we think they are. Let’s give our kids a shot at homeschooling. The rewards they will reap as they grow will all be worth it.
Fear of Teaching A Super Kulit Kid
Ok, I hear this a lot from fellow moms. “Ay hindi pwede sa anak ko ang homeschooling kasi mabo-bore siya sa bahay. Masiyadong malikot at makulit. Naku, mag-aaway lang kami lagi.” (“Homeschooling is not for my child because he gets easily bored at home. He is naughty and fidgety. We might fight a lot.”)
Our Sweetpea is a bubble of energy that bursts from time to time and is quite hard to contain too. I personally believe that kids who have a special abundance of energy and need for attention thrive when the caregiver is willing to give his/her all to them. Who fits this description best? Of course, its us moms and dads! By God’s grace, I long to be close to our children at this early stage in their lives when their hearts are soft and easy to mold.
Learning with our children
What I enjoy best about homeschooling is discovering new things alongside our children. By God’s grace, children seem to be happier in class when mommy doesn’t pretend to be a know-it-all. My 5th grader finds it funny when she answers a math problem faster than me! I have always been honest to her about my weakness when it comes to numbers. I like how some tough lessons turn into intimate moments of learning something together. This is something I find magical.
I wrote about this topic not because I think I found the right or perfect way to teach preschool. I really just want to document this awkward stage in our homeschool journey which I know can make us all laugh someday. I also want to release my negative emotions through writing and hope to encourage those who read my hurdles.
“For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.” – 2 Timothy 1:7
My knees still shake at the thought of our first day (which is coming in a few weeks!Yikes!). These ugly fears cropping up when parents are considering to homeschool come from its source- our spiritual enemy. I don’t think the feelings of inadequacy and cloud of fear ever go away completely, because the enemy is at work round-the-clock but I am encouraged by the fact that God is also protecting us nonstop. He is ever-present in all of our school days, both good and bad.
(Check out the Homeschooling tabs where I listed some resources that I find super helpful.)